Monday, July 20, 2009

I need an ear

Sometimes I am not sure what to think. This afternoon we were sitting over at my mil and fil's house (they live next door) and talking. My 24 y/o sil come over at she got off of work for dinner. We had ordered pizza's so mil, Lauren and I went to pick them up. After we left my sil starts bashing me to my husband, fil and Hunter! She was saying that I am lazy, that I sleep half the day and then go swimming everyday instead of taking Hunter to mow their grandmother's yard. Of course my husband took up for me and told her he would be sure to let me know how she felt about me. But my question is.. does the whole family feel this way, just a few or only her? Hubby and I have been together for over 15 years and I really would like to know the answer to that!

3 comments:

jenontheedge said...

Her comments were rude and out of line. I would assume that her opinions are her own and not that those of the entire family, or else you would have heard about this before now.

Brandy said...

Thanks Jen!

barnettag said...

NICE TO KNOW I MADE IT IN YOUR BLOG.... AND NO I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE THAT FEELS THAT WAY YOU PISSED OF MORE THAN JUST ME WHEN YOU NEVER SHOWED OR CALLED GRANDMOTHER.... TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH... IT PISSES ME OFF BECAUSE I WAS LIKE YOUR SHADOW WHEN I WAS YOUNGER BUT I GUESS THAT WAS JUST BECAUSE I KEPT HUNTER AT THE FISH WHY YOU SHOPPED AND ENTERTAINED HIM... YOU HAVE EXCLUDED ME AND AMY SINCE YOU HAVE BECOME SUCH HIGH SOCIETY... YOU HAVE ONLY BEEN TO AMY'S HOUSE MAYBE TWICE... HUNTER'S BDAY AT WILD RIVER COUNTRY I WASN'T EVEN INVITED...YOU HAVE NEVER HAD TO WORK A DAY IN YOUR LIFE WHICH IS LUCKY FOR YOU MY BROTHER HAS GOT A GOOD JOB AND CAN SUPPORT ALL THE HABBITS(SHOPPING) AND EVERYTHING ELSE.... AND IF YOU REALLY CARED ABOUT WHAT I HAD TO SAY AND IF YOU CARED ABOUT US BEING SIL YOU WOULD HAVE COME TO ME TO TALK ABOUT IT... MY WHOLE POINT AND THIS IS THE SAME THING I TOLD VINCE YOU COULD HAVE ATLEAST CALLED GRANDMOTHER.... MY MOM AND DAD WERE OUT OF STATE WHICH MEANT MOM COULDN'T GO MOW I WENT OVER TO GRANDMOTHERS MONDAY AND SHE SAID SHE WAS WAITING ON YOU AND HUNTER THEN WENT BACK OVER THERE FRIDAY AND SHE HAD NOT HEARD OR SEEN FROM YOU SO SHE MOWED HER YARD HERSELF... YOU COULD HAVE ATLEAST CALLED ME AND ASKED ME IF I COULD HAVE DONE IT BECAUSE SHE IS 80 AND IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD SHE LIVES IN HAS NO BUSINESS OUT THERE BY HERSELF.... THE LAST TEXT NOT EVEN PHONE CALL I GOT FROM YOU WAS THE FACT YOU WERE AT THE KENNY CHESNEY CONCERT ON THE 4TH ROW... BRAGGIN... BEFORE THAT IT WAS WANTING TO KNOW IF I KNEW ANYONE WHO WANTED A PUPPY.... I KNOW YOU ARE A PART OF THIS FAMILY ITS JUST YOU COULD ACT LIKE IT TO PEOPLE OTHER THAN MOM AND DAD.... LIKE I SAID I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE THAT FEELS THIS WAY... AND I WAS GOING TO LET ALL THIS GO TILL I SEEN I MADE IT ON YOUR BLOG!!!!